WHAT WE CARRIED WITH US

 

It couldn't have been much, whatever

could be tossed into two plastic garbage bags

and carried, from the station wagon

to the front porch of our foster home,

a word which we had neither heard nor spoken,

but one that would become as common

as a surname, shorthand for others to describe us.

We carried our toothbrushes and combs,

clothes and underwear, carried whatever toys

or stuffed animal could be retrieved,

while the cacophony of sirens sped our comatose

mother to the cold comfort of hospital rooms,

plastic roses, a potpourri of pills to replace

the ones which had not managed to kill her.

We took a blanket or two, worn and pilling,

superhero pajamas, damp familiarity

of our own sweat-smell.

But mostly, we took all that we could not

speak of -- the unshifting weight which

an absent father leaves, ladder rungs of anxiety

we could neither climb nor give name to,

the mutual shame of bed wetting

and the sudden difficulty of common speech.

We carried each other, brother, hardly

aware that we were doing so, always balancing,

always stronger than we looked or imagined.

We carried that grief until it settled in,

quiet and unobtrusive, a gentle tune humming

through the bones. I'm singing it now, though you

have been gone now these many years,

pausing just long enough for you to whistle

through the grass blades, bend that grosbeak's note

just so, rustle the cotton shirts and work pants

upon the line in a pantomime of breath,

the familiar motion of walking away.

MATHEMATICS

 

My scalp prickled with tiny beads of anxiety. Everyone had left school but me, and Mr. Heaney, who hovered like an unwelcome shadow, rising occasionally from his desk, hands clasped behind his back, his New Balance sneakers silent in their slow, measured steps. The blackboard had been wiped clean, dark as the night sky, only a few ghostly wisps of another world showing through. I was trying and failing, trying and failing, at long division, the paper wearing through from my endless corrections. "The universe is made of numbers," I was told again and again. "You must know this, if you are to know anything." I did not doubt this, though it was a language the Creator had somehow chosen to keep from me. I labored on as the afternoon light gradually shifted, and the clock ticked out its seconds, each with a small sense of finality. I could imagine the invisible threads connecting all things, though I gave them neither name nor meaning. I could hear the voices of summer outside rising and falling, could almost make out the words that elicited their sudden laughter, though it all seemed, in those moments, to be light years away.

GHAZAL ON FAILURE

 

I can't take credit for every one of my failures.

The best of my mistakes were not made on my own.

When the butcher puts down his blade, he is a Buddha;

but the poet without a pen is simply on their own.

Love's rough bargain offers the world and more;

all that it requires is everything you think you own.

Sleep thickens in the corners of the lover's room.

Even together, we bear the weight of years on our own.

The long shadow of rain crosses my brother's grave.

There is no Why, it repeats; you are on your own.

When I was a child, I could draw every world imagined;

It was no punishment to be left on my own.

Perhaps we grieve most that which never arrived,

a palpable absence that claims us as its own.

The anxieties of youth are lessened by those of age;

but the worst of our lives is not all that we own.